It doesn’t matter how it looks, it matters how it makes you feel.

I was standing in my bathroom a few weeks ago getting ready to head out to a family function. I had my black bra on with my tights. I can’t wear clothes while doing my hair and makeup for fear of the back sweats that inevitably pop up when I’m putting myself together.

As I was curling my hair, I recognized this feeling that has been becoming familiar. I felt so good and sexy…..In a bra and tights.

That feeling overwhelmed me and I began moving and grooving around the house. Damn. I felt good.

It didn’t matter how it looked because it made me feel something.
A feeling I relish in, a feeling I welcome, a feeling I don’t judge or criticize.

I did decide to look in the mirror, don’t we always. Does it look as good as it feels, so I mirror checked. Guess what. How it looked didn’t matter. I realized standing there that I didn’t care whether it looked good to even me, let alone someone else. Those tights and bra made me feel empowered, unstoppable and unbelievably sexy.
THAT’S what I was wearing.
I was wearing all those good vibes and feelings, and it felt damn good.

I encourage you to focus on the feeling, not the look!
Wear something that makes you feel good.
Walk out the door with those feelings on display.
When you do, you will be unstoppable!

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